{"id":9266,"date":"2016-09-12T15:28:29","date_gmt":"2016-09-12T20:28:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/?p=9266"},"modified":"2016-09-15T15:38:42","modified_gmt":"2016-09-15T20:38:42","slug":"how-to-talk-english-learning-to-embrace-britishisms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/2016\/how-to-talk-english-learning-to-embrace-britishisms\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Talk English: Learning to embrace Britishisms"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>This post is the seventh in our &#8220;England 2015&#8221;:\/news\/category\/travel\/england-2015\/ series.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>As soon as we had secured our plane tickets, our first task was to contact our dear friend and host Teresa, a spunky, energetic 86-year-old Englishwoman. She and the Boyd family have been friends for decades, and she has been urging us to bring our family to visit for years.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Once I figured out how to make an international call on my phone, I got through to Teresa. As always, she was warm and considerate (&#8220;Darling, I&#8217;m so glad you will stay in the flat. I won&#8217;t be a bit in your way!&#8221;), but I ended the call with a sudden realization: I have an American accent, and I was feeling very self-conscious about it.<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/2016\/how-to-talk-english-learning-to-embrace-britishisms\/img_4725\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-9297\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/IMG_4725.jpg\" alt=\"Posing with King Henry VIII.\" width=\"1000\" height=\"750\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-9297\" srcset=\"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/IMG_4725.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/IMG_4725-128x96.jpg 128w, https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/IMG_4725-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<em>A few Americans posing with King Henry VIII at Hampton Court Palace.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Essentially, this anxiety simply mirrored the rest of the self-consciousness I felt about my American ways, and I handled it in a similar style: by aiming to be both true to myself and sensitive to our host culture. I found a healing example of American elegance in England through watching <em>Downton Abbey<\/em> and studying &#8220;Lady Grantham\u2019s&#8221;:http:\/\/downtonabbey.wikia.com\/wiki\/Cora_Crawley gracious and unapologetic American accent.<\/p>\n<p>At home, we practiced saying &#8220;I&#8217;m looking for the loo!&#8221; and &#8220;May I please have a biscuit?&#8221; The girls found it hilarious that one should say &#8220;trousers&#8221; instead of &#8220;pants&#8221; in England, lest others think you are referring to undergarments.<\/p>\n<p>It all worked out, albeit imperfectly. We stumbled right off the bat by explaning to the customs officer that we were &#8220;on vacation&#8221; (and not &#8220;on holiday&#8221;). I was always strangely surprised that people understood what we were talking about when we asked for &#8220;the loo.&#8221; We even said &#8220;pants&#8221; a few times in public, then giggled with embarrassment. I did finally relax into a state of acceptance of my own American accent.<\/p>\n<p>But we felt very pleased when, at one breakfast in Gloucestershire, a man mistook us for Canadians due to our quiet demeanor. Score one for Team America!<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/2016\/how-to-talk-english-learning-to-embrace-britishisms\/dub-step\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-9278\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/dub-step.jpg\" alt=\"Mind the step.\" width=\"998\" height=\"686\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-9278\" srcset=\"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/dub-step.jpg 998w, https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/dub-step-128x88.jpg 128w, https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/dub-step-768x528.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<em>An English cautionary sign with English graffiti about an &#8220;English genre of dance music&#8221;:https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Dubstep .<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Read the next post in our &#8220;England 2015&#8221;:\/news\/category\/travel\/england-2015\/ series: <a href=\/news\/2016\/its-merely-a-flesh-wound\/>It&#8217;s Merely a Flesh Wound: Diving into England&#8217;s bloody history<\/a><\/em>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This post is the seventh in our &#8220;England 2015&#8221;:\/news\/category\/travel\/england-2015\/ series. As soon as we had secured our plane tickets, our first task was to contact our dear friend and host Teresa, a spunky, energetic 86-year-old Englishwoman. She and the Boyd family have been friends for decades, and she has been urging us to bring our &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/2016\/how-to-talk-english-learning-to-embrace-britishisms\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;How to Talk English: Learning to embrace Britishisms&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":9297,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28,21,2,27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9266","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-england-2015","category-family","category-kids","category-travel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9266","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9266"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9266\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9330,"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9266\/revisions\/9330"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9297"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9266"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9266"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9266"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}