well<\/a>“-rested”:\/news\/2008\/swirls\/), we have to pass through several stages to achieve the final vision:<\/p>\n# *A quiet, dark place to sleep.* Before this week, Rosie was sleeping pretty much anywhere _except_ a crib — in the “bouncy seat”:\/news\/2008\/mr-hurst\/, in the “baby Papasan”:\/news\/2008\/slightly-moist\/, on the “futon”:\/news\/2008\/contented\/, in the “Baby Bj\u00c3\u00b6rn”:\/news\/2008\/bubble\/, on the Boppy after nursing. And since this girl has been growing leaps and bounds, she is getting too big for the co-sleeper. Plus, Rosie doesn’t have a room of her own — yet.
\n# *Naps in a crib.* We are already making great progress here! Even when Rosie does fall asleep in the carseat when we are out, most of the time I can bring her inside, put her in a quiet room, and she’ll sleep for a long time. We’re actually really amazed at her ability to sleep.
\n# *Nighttime sleep in the crib.* Co-sleeping with the Roz has been great for these past few months. We’ve all gotten the sleep that we need, and that’s been the most important thing. However, we’re confident Rosie is getting old enough to sleep in a crib on her own. And Mama would like to have grown-ups-only sleep again in the near future.
\n# *Asleep for the night around 7:00 pm.* Because we’ve been co-sleeping, Rosie has been going to sleep for the night around 10:00 pm. We need to help her transition to an earlier bedtime, but she still seems to believe that she is merely napping in the evening. And Mama isn’t willing to go to bed at 7 for the night with this little munchkin.<\/p>\n
So we have our work cut out for us. We aren’t opposed to some crying, but we would like to minimize it if possible, and try to tackle the transitions one at a time to reduce trauma on everyone. Here are the plans we have:<\/p>\n
* *Create a good place for Rosie to sleep.* Our two-bedroom house requires some creative thinking on this point. We are borrowing a crib from some friends (thanks, Dori & Carson!) to substitute for the now-too-small sleigh-bed co-sleeper. (Lucy will probably move into a big-girl bed in a few months and free up her crib, but we’re not quite ready for that yet.) Mama and Papa are planning to move out onto the living room futon for nighttime sleep and loan our room to Rosie. We’re even considering dismantling our bed and moving it into “the fun room”:\/news\/2007\/dizzy\/, though that’s not certain yet. Someday (but who knows when?), we plan to move Rosie in with Lucy. I see bunk beds in our future!
\n* *Naps in crib whenever possible.* This is “working well”:\/news\/2008\/yawn\/, and she seems to enjoy it. And, I must say, it is *so much easier* to chase a toddler around without “carrying a sleeping baby”:\/news\/2008\/resting\/ in the Baby Bj\u00c3\u00b6rn. It’s also a real bonus to have hands free to put Lucy down for a nap — and much more snuggly!
\n* *Do some research.* Although Weissbluth clearly approves of a family’s decision to begin co-sleeping and then transition to independent sleep when the baby is about four months old, frustratingly he gives absolutely no instructions about how to do that. Do you move the baby into a crib first, and then work on the earlier bedtime? How do help the baby transition from “next-to-Mama sleep”:\/news\/2008\/youngster\/ to in-the-crib sleep? Is it possible to prevent the baby from screaming in protest in the middle of the night? (What experiences do other people have?)
\n* *Limit nighttime feedings.* It has been really easy just to roll over half-asleep and nurse the baby when she makes the slightest fuss, but this is resulting in two, three, or even four feedings in the night. That won’t work for me when I have to actually get up and feed the baby. Last night I tried feeding once and then gently turning my back to Rosie when she started rooting around later, and she fell right asleep! Only one feeding in the night — a first for Rosie’s lifetime. (Sometimes a really simple idea just works!)
\n* *Experiment with alternate soothing strategies.* So far, we’ve pretty much used only motion and nursing to soothe Rosie when she is sleepy. But there are other tactics to try. Perhaps we’ll swaddle her again? (Amazing that we haven’t “swaddled her”:\/news\/2008\/scalloped-ears-second-edition\/ since about week three, when “Lucy was swaddled”:\/news\/2006\/happy-napper\/ until she was “nine months old”:\/news\/2007\/farewell-o-swaddle\/!) Or try a pacifier?
\n* *Establish a bedtime routine.* I hope to end up with some combination of bath, pajamas, nursing, and a book before too long — just as with “her big sister”:\/news\/2007\/while-you-were-out\/.<\/p>\n
We’re keeping our eye on the prize. One of these days, Jon and I will sit down for a candlelit dinner after our babies are happily sleeping in bed, and _that_ will be cause for a celebration!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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