{"id":1750,"date":"2008-04-10T20:33:15","date_gmt":"2008-04-11T01:33:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/2008\/soothing-rituals\/"},"modified":"2008-04-10T20:33:15","modified_gmt":"2008-04-11T01:33:15","slug":"soothing-rituals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/2008\/soothing-rituals\/","title":{"rendered":"Soothing rituals"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We are starting to get the hang of the two-baby thing over here. I&#8217;m very glad for that. Now the next project is breaking my hourly chocolate fix. <!--more--><\/p>\n<p><img src='http:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/04\/img_1945.JPG' alt='Soothing rituals' class=\"alignright\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m a firm believer in soothing rituals. Everyone needs a little self-imposed TLC throughout the day. Cigarette breaks, an afternoon shot of espresso, coffee cake in the lunchroom, a walk in the fresh air &#8212; everyone needs some ways to take a mental breather.<\/p>\n<p>p{color:gray}. Photo: Rosie&#8217;s already soothed: milk is her fix.<\/p>\n<p>Before Rosie was born, I had several soothing rituals that I was able to deploy during the day at different times. Here are a few:<\/p>\n<p>* Reading a parenting magazine &#8220;while Lucy looked on with me&#8221;:\/news\/2006\/magazine-readers\/. &#8220;Lucy, let&#8217;s look at pictures of babies!&#8221; Often, Lucy would grab a magazine herself and thumb through it on her own.<br \/>\n* Listening to an audiobook in the car while running an errand with Lucy. We&#8217;re still not quite finished with the &#8220;_Little House_&#8221;:http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Little_House_on_the_Prairie series.<br \/>\n* Going for a walk with Lucy in the &#8220;stroller&#8221;:\/news\/2007\/cutie-times-nine\/.<br \/>\n* Cooking while Lucy played in the &#8220;fun room&#8221;:\/news\/2007\/dizzy\/ (for short periods).<br \/>\n* Taking a break while &#8220;Lucy watched a short video&#8221;:\/news\/2008\/stagehand\/.<br \/>\n* Eating some &#8220;chocolate&#8221;:\/news\/2006\/fudgy-mexican-brownies\/.<\/p>\n<p>Since things have gotten more complicated around here, I don&#8217;t have quite the same repertoire available to me. Lucy has started talking so much that audiobooks in the car don&#8217;t work quite as well, videos are mainly reserved for times that Mama needs to nurse the baby, and the weather has mostly been too cold and yucky to take a newborn out in it for a walk.<\/p>\n<p>So, there&#8217;s one thing that is left: eating chocolate. And, boy, have I been doing my share. Between mini candy bars, frozen confections, and my own baked creations, there has been a lot of sugar consumption. Adding to the compulsiveness of this behavior is the way I sneak these treats when Lucy isn&#8217;t watching, since I don&#8217;t want her to follow my example and eat sweets all day long. I&#8217;ve become the fastest Cookie Monster in Chicago, and I don&#8217;t just draw the line at cookies.<\/p>\n<p>I knew this had to change sometime, and I&#8217;ve been giving myself a bit of grace on this front for a few weeks. But Rosie turns four weeks old tomorrow, my voracious post-partum appetite is beginning to slow down, and the sugar-fix isn&#8217;t having quite the soothing effect that it did at the beginning. I must find some alternatives! Any ideas? I have a lot of hope that walks in the sunshine will help, once we get some consistently pleasant weather. Until then, I&#8217;ll just keep baking cookies and freezing them in a desperate attempt not to eat the whole batch at once!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We are starting to get the hang of the two-baby thing over here. I&#8217;m very glad for that. Now the next project is breaking my hourly chocolate fix.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1750","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kids"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1750","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1750"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1750\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1750"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1750"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/boydsnest.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1750"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}