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	<title>Comments on: Moral dilemma</title>
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		<title>By: Deborah</title>
		<link>http://boydsnest.org/news/2006/moral-dilemma/comment-page-1/#comment-1498</link>
		<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jan 2007 03:01:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This has happened to me 3 times at Target since Evan was born.  I&#039;ve walked out with The Office Season 1 DVD, a tube of lotion, and one more thing that I can&#039;t remember.  Every time, I would get everything (including baby) into the car, then find that last random item.  It&#039;s so aggravating to walk back into the store to pay, but that&#039;s what I&#039;ve done.  I just want to feel like I&#039;m modeling the right thing for Evan, even if he&#039;s not really aware of what&#039;s going on.  

I also think the mailing a check idea is a good one.  However, I&#039;m not very organized, so if I didn&#039;t pay for the item right at the moment, I&#039;d probably put off sending the check or I&#039;d forget to pay the next time I went to the store.  I find that it&#039;s better for me to bite the bullet and deal with the problem right away.  I&#039;m easily distracted.  :)

I&#039;m trying to be more thorough now when I go through the checkout line.  Once was no big deal, the second time was a pain, but the third time was just embarrassing.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This has happened to me 3 times at Target since Evan was born.  I&#8217;ve walked out with The Office Season 1 <span class="caps">DVD</span>, a tube of lotion, and one more thing that I can&#8217;t remember.  Every time, I would get everything (including baby) into the car, then find that last random item.  It&#8217;s so aggravating to walk back into the store to pay, but that&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve done.  I just want to feel like I&#8217;m modeling the right thing for Evan, even if he&#8217;s not really aware of what&#8217;s going on.  </p>
<p>I also think the mailing a check idea is a good one.  However, I&#8217;m not very organized, so if I didn&#8217;t pay for the item right at the moment, I&#8217;d probably put off sending the check or I&#8217;d forget to pay the next time I went to the store.  I find that it&#8217;s better for me to bite the bullet and deal with the problem right away.  I&#8217;m easily distracted.  :)</p>
<p>I&#8217;m trying to be more thorough now when I go through the checkout line.  Once was no big deal, the second time was a pain, but the third time was just embarrassing.</p>
<p>Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!</p>
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		<title>By: Tysa</title>
		<link>http://boydsnest.org/news/2006/moral-dilemma/comment-page-1/#comment-1370</link>
		<dc:creator>Tysa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2006 17:50:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We are the examples for our children.  Even though it&#039;s small, I&#039;ve paid for a single gummy worm Kaia ate from the bulk bin.  It was the lesson she needed.  

I&#039;ve also had to go back in line at ShopKo when I found something in the cart that never made it up.  I was tempted just to leave it in the cart and go home, but the lesson was important. 

Mailing them a check is a good idea.  Saves you a trip, and still takes care of the bill.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We are the examples for our children.  Even though it&#8217;s small, I&#8217;ve paid for a single gummy worm Kaia ate from the bulk bin.  It was the lesson she needed.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve also had to go back in line at ShopKo when I found something in the cart that never made it up.  I was tempted just to leave it in the cart and go home, but the lesson was important. </p>
<p>Mailing them a check is a good idea.  Saves you a trip, and still takes care of the bill.</p>
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		<title>By: Ann</title>
		<link>http://boydsnest.org/news/2006/moral-dilemma/comment-page-1/#comment-1358</link>
		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2006 04:11:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are both smart, and have good ideas — I will do it. Kelly, I love your Walmart story!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are both smart, and have good ideas — I will do it. Kelly, I love your Walmart story!</p>
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		<title>By: kelly</title>
		<link>http://boydsnest.org/news/2006/moral-dilemma/comment-page-1/#comment-1357</link>
		<dc:creator>kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2006 02:48:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yes, they build it into the pricing overhead.

once I got to the parking lot at Walmart and discovered I had a toothbrush stuck to the bottom of one of the bags, which had never made it ourt of the cart.  I was too tired, after hauling a baby and toddler around the shop, to go back in.  But I felt guilty about my &quot;theft&quot;. 

Since I live an hour from Walmart I decided to mail them a check for $1.03 (with explanatory note) to cover the brush plus tax.  They sent me back a handwritten card signed by the head of accounting, saying that in all their years they had never ever had anyone do that before... and gave me a $5 gift card.  

...not that it should be your motivation, but I guess sometimes it pays to be honest.  :o)  Other times I&#039;ve done similar things and gotten yelled at or ignored, so it doesn&#039;t always pay!

But mainly-- wow, what a witness that can be, to be scrupulously honest in a dishonest world.  It will make them shake their heads, and that might be a good thing.  :o)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yes, they build it into the pricing overhead.</p>
<p>once I got to the parking lot at Walmart and discovered I had a toothbrush stuck to the bottom of one of the bags, which had never made it ourt of the cart.  I was too tired, after hauling a baby and toddler around the shop, to go back in.  But I felt guilty about my &#8220;theft&#8221;. </p>
<p>Since I live an hour from Walmart I decided to mail them a check for $1.03 (with explanatory note) to cover the brush plus tax.  They sent me back a handwritten card signed by the head of accounting, saying that in all their years they had never ever had anyone do that before&#8230; and gave me a $5 gift card.  </p>
<p>&#8230;not that it should be your motivation, but I guess sometimes it pays to be honest.  :o)  Other times I&#8217;ve done similar things and gotten yelled at or ignored, so it doesn&#8217;t always pay!</p>
<p>But mainly&#8212; wow, what a witness that can be, to be scrupulously honest in a dishonest world.  It will make them shake their heads, and that might be a good thing.  :o)</p>
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		<title>By: Jon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2006 01:59:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the right thing to do is to go to the service desk next time you&#039;re there and offer to pay for it. Maybe they&#039;ll take the money, by my guess is they&#039;ll thank you for your honesty and let it go. But at least you&#039;ll be totally above-board.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the right thing to do is to go to the service desk next time you&#8217;re there and offer to pay for it. Maybe they&#8217;ll take the money, by my guess is they&#8217;ll thank you for your honesty and let it go. But at least you&#8217;ll be totally above-board.</p>
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